Have you ever thought about that? Why do men get dumped by women? Time and time again you'll hear a man make the comment that his girlfriend or wife just broke up with him. You were so good to her it almost seemed like you worshiped her, so you'll have no idea why.
Have you been told that "nice guys finish last"? Well, that statement is partially true. Many women aren't as self assured as they could be and any women who is a little insecure will sometimes wonder why a really great guy would want her. If you appear to be madly in love with her, she will think you have some sort of problem.
Is it that way with all women? Nope, of course not! Many women have the self assurance to know what they want in a man and they'll expect to be treated well or they'll get out of the relationship. But there are a lot of women who tend to use the "grass is always greener" thought process. The best guy for them is the one just around a corner.
What happens when a lady ends the relationship for no reason? The number one rule is NO CONTACT, not by phone, email, or in person. Blinded by her own selfishness, she was unable to see what you had to offer.
Try not to act like you're devastated, but instead get back out in the world. Go out with friends, go on dates if you like. Actually, dating is good because you just might find a woman out there who has the self assurance to appreciate what you offer.
The real question you need to ask yourself is if you really want to be in a relationship with an insecure woman? Think about it? Is she really worth it? If you absolutely think she's the one, then you need to give her a lot of time and space to grow up. Fixing a relationship is always possible if the trust is still there.
It's fairly likely that she'll call you if you haven't called her in awhile. Be friendly, but aloof. Don't share much about your life. And don't ask a lot about hers. And cut the call short. The idea is to give her time to realize that you ARE the man of her dreams.
Basically, she's going to have to earn the right to have you for a boyfriend or lover. Let HER chase you, not the other way around. And if you finally let her catch you, hold a little of yourself back for a while. Remember, she's not sure what to do if you're really nice, so don't give so much.
Am I saying treat her bad? No way! Just stay a little more independent of her this time. If you really want to save your relationship, these are the steps that can make it happen! - 16890
Have you been told that "nice guys finish last"? Well, that statement is partially true. Many women aren't as self assured as they could be and any women who is a little insecure will sometimes wonder why a really great guy would want her. If you appear to be madly in love with her, she will think you have some sort of problem.
Is it that way with all women? Nope, of course not! Many women have the self assurance to know what they want in a man and they'll expect to be treated well or they'll get out of the relationship. But there are a lot of women who tend to use the "grass is always greener" thought process. The best guy for them is the one just around a corner.
What happens when a lady ends the relationship for no reason? The number one rule is NO CONTACT, not by phone, email, or in person. Blinded by her own selfishness, she was unable to see what you had to offer.
Try not to act like you're devastated, but instead get back out in the world. Go out with friends, go on dates if you like. Actually, dating is good because you just might find a woman out there who has the self assurance to appreciate what you offer.
The real question you need to ask yourself is if you really want to be in a relationship with an insecure woman? Think about it? Is she really worth it? If you absolutely think she's the one, then you need to give her a lot of time and space to grow up. Fixing a relationship is always possible if the trust is still there.
It's fairly likely that she'll call you if you haven't called her in awhile. Be friendly, but aloof. Don't share much about your life. And don't ask a lot about hers. And cut the call short. The idea is to give her time to realize that you ARE the man of her dreams.
Basically, she's going to have to earn the right to have you for a boyfriend or lover. Let HER chase you, not the other way around. And if you finally let her catch you, hold a little of yourself back for a while. Remember, she's not sure what to do if you're really nice, so don't give so much.
Am I saying treat her bad? No way! Just stay a little more independent of her this time. If you really want to save your relationship, these are the steps that can make it happen! - 16890
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